![]() ![]() You had done an earlier post on a sex schedule and had a Maintenance Spanking on one day. If we do pegging after spanking, his skin can be a bit tender but pegging in our household is gentle and loving. As with accepting your man’s penis inside you, my man accepts my strap-on inside him and it is a fulfilling, exciting experience for both of us. Pegging is a reward and when done properly, pegging should not be painful. I’ve included pegging here because I want to make sure that I am very clear that pegging is not a punishment. As head of household, I don’t want to spank him to tears but sometimes it is necessary. I certainly don’t want him sitting in the corner thinking of his spanking and getting resentful so i feel that showing some love is very important. Nobody is looking to make him guess how to stay out of trouble. Afterwards, corner time always follows so he can think about his punishment and my loving words of encouragement. In my household, spanking is always followed by a long hug followed by some sweet words of encouragement and reminder of what was done wrong and specifics on how it can be avoided in the future. Get some aloe gel or something cool and soothing to put on his bottom to help him heal up quickly. Not that you go into this with the intention of bruising or blood, my point is that you don’t have to concern yourself if you do it correctly.Īfter your spanking session is over, aftercare is important. If you hit the right spot, you can leave deep bruises and even draw blood without any worry. I’ve included an illustration below so you know where to hit without causing damage. After a couple good practices, I give him about five hard swats to the “convex buttocks”. From there, I take a large wooden paddle and give him a few practice swats. This is basically the same position that we use for pegging. I realized that I couldn’t get the necessary force when I had him over my knee so I had him stand by the bed with his face buried in the pillow. At first he didn’t take me seriously and thought that I was playing into some sort of fantasy. When I first started spanking him, I would take him over my knee after some stern words. When I spank my man I actually want it to hurt and I want a lesson to be learned. If you aren’t careful, he may try to get himself “in trouble” just to get spanked. Bending him over a chair, your lap or the bed can be kinky or exciting for him. Spanking your man is easy but can actually backfire if done improperly. After writing that one or two hundred times, he should have an easier time remembering next time. You can even have him write repeating lines such as “I will not forget to do your laundry”. Have him write an apology letter or perhaps a recount of how he could have handled things differently. If he speaks, drops the coins, takes his hands off his head or stands up from the rice, his counter starts over.Īfter corner time, a long embrace and encouragement about how well he handled his punishment is highly encouraged. If he is unclear as to the reason you are upset, this all needs to happen prior to corner time. Make sure that his corner time is done in complete silence. You can also have him hold coins against the wall with his fingers or even kneel on rice if your floor is hardwood or tile. ![]() Positions can vary but I like hands and arms behind his head. Then tell him how long he will be in the corner, I typically don’t do corner time for less than 30 minutes. You should identify a corner in the house as his corner so he knows where his punishments will be carried out. Start by leading him over to the corner by his arm or wrist. He is to stand in the corner, facing the wall to think about whatever it is that you wish him to think about. Corner time is a planned time out when your man stands in a corner with no distractions such as television, phone, music etc. ![]()
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